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Post by Darth Wong » Mon Jan 10, 2005 9:21 pm
Hey guys (and girls), i understand some guy whom, well, let us simply say he’s got not done well he can’t find a girl for himself in life, and. The thing is that in their desperation, he connected with some body within the Philippines on the internet. Now here is the part that is crazy he states he has got currently decided to marry her (after just once you understand her for a few days and do not having also met her once) and plans to get here in March to enter wedlock. I might genuinely believe that “reckless” is an understatement right here.
Anyhow, first thing that came in your thoughts ended up being that she wished to make use of him to have citizenship right here. But are here even greater hazards that i ought to be warning him about? Do some of you understand of every frauds concerning this, like individuals kidnapping the unwary would-be groom whenever he turns up to marry this girl he is never ever met? I have heard about that in a few full situations because of the Nigerian money-laundering scam.
I guess an optimist would argue that possibly this thing that is whole legit, but We’m an excessive amount of a cynic to get that. I do believe this person is likely to get scammed or even worse. If some of you understand of any horror tales involving this kind of thing, inform me and possibly I’m able to frighten him using them.
Post by starfoxtj » Tue Jan 11, 2005 5:20 am
Well, I do not have tales, but i might be EXTREMELY carful about this (while you are already). Your friend has absolutely absolutely nothing limiting him from going, but i might decide to try EVERYTHING feasible to obtain him to believe it over.
I will be 99% yes this case will maybe not prove in the benefit, just just how girls that are many wish to simply fulfill some guy on the internet and marry him?. Most likley, she’s going to dump him the moment she becomes clear and american that is free or something like that else is tucked up her sleeve.
Post by smithy_dll » Tue Jan 11, 2005 5:42 am
We thought Darth Wong ended up being canadian,
Well I would personally need to accept using the care and presuming it really is a fraud. No proof is had by him she actually exists, wether this woman is actually a female, ended up being constantly a female, and extremely really really loves him.
Whats additionally wear could be the wedding has ended here, rather than in a secure democratic destination which would not tollerate any type of mal-bahaviour.
He could be using risks that are several,
Post by erk » Tue Jan 11, 2005 8:56 am
Post by starfoxtj » Tue Jan 11, 2005 9:00 am
Well, i will be perhaps not too against internet relationship, nevertheless, he should at LEAST arrive at better know her MUCH. Exchange photos, talk from the phone, or make use of cam (at the very least to ensure its a girl your to! That is talking).
But actually, internet relationship can be carried out, but I dont think you ought to get hitched after only once you understand them for a couple months.
Post by Darth Wong » Wed Jan 12, 2005 4:01 am
Post by Anon » Wed Jan 12, 2005 4:11 am
I believe that online Dating just works if you should be within the city that is lavalife same possibly state/region, not different nations. Like is sa natural girl whom truly desires to proceed through along with it. What amazes and scares me personally at the exact same time is he’s had just about exactly the same thing occur to him.
Brief variation: never also think of going there to marry her/him.
Post by Fubonis » Wed Jan 12, 2005 4:36 am
Fool me personally when, pity on, pity for you. Fool me twice–can’t again get fooled.
If he has got maybe not discovered through the very first experience, he never will. Perhaps you should make use of him before some foreigner can.
Post by Darth Wong » Wed Jan 12, 2005 6:58 am
The truth is, after conversing with him, he appears to genuinely believe that the error he created using the past woman had been in perhaps maybe perhaps not marrying her, so she felt no genuine dedication to him. Anything you can perform is move your eyes.
Post by programhouze » Wed Jan 12, 2005 1:01 pm
In either case you appear at it, the man is or should be “hard up” or something like that. I think the “Mail-order bride” deal is B.S. And a complete waste of individual and time that is emotional.
Just like the other individual stated, online dating sites should be through with your personal basic area. There clearly was instances when men and women have met from around the world and hitched. But, less than those partners which have met inside their areas that are own.
